Trying to be unbiased here:
@Fornad, for me the major offense in this agreement is that we have to give up our work of the past 3 or so years (on MCME 2.0). A similar sacrifice was made with the transition to MCME 2.0, yes, but a few key differences exist. First, that was giving up
our builds (our being figurative, I wasn't a member at the time) for more of
our builds. However, in this case we are giving up
our builds for
your builds. On top of that, ArdaCraft is, essentially, our collective enemy and is viewed as a "traitor" on here. Additionally, we are approaching 2 1/2 years spent on Gondor alone - nearly half of the entire life of the server, and as much time as was spent on all of Eriador and Rohan together on the old map. Gondor is almost finished, and to throw it away now is, undeniably, not attractive.
In short, logically, the merge makes sense, but in reality, it is unrealistic.
However, the only semblance of a solution to this issue is to throw away both our map and yours, and make an all-new map. We would both be giving up about the same amount of work - measured in years, that is. Obviously, though, this goes against all logic, and I think both communities would then oppose the merge.
I do like your builds on ArdaCraft, and I think a merge could result in great accomplishments. It seems to be agreed here that your Shire is quite good - our new Bag End shows unquestionable similarities to your style - and I would hope you feel the same way about our Gondor. However, due to the insurmountable issue of builds, I think a merge is unlikely.
P.S. A joint pvp server would be swag. I am working on a new one for MCME at the moment, and if no one is opposed to it, I'd love to make a "Middle-earth" pvp together, not specifically tied to either server. Could be some issues in that, like finances, but it's just an idea.