Don't want to sound like an ass but I've only had very rare occasions where I felt like the situation was only caused by my gender. People in general aren't "mindless 5 year olds" when they meet a girl online. Having this very attitude is what causes this: Instead of deciding that your gender is something to be put under the spotlight and something that's constantly attacked like you seem to suggest, acting like it isn't something that matters will make people ignore it. You'll be one of the group, that just happens to be a girl, instead of being the girl of the group. "Taking refuge and talk to at least one person" is making it sound like literally everyone who isn't a girl will immediately harass them. I don't know about you but the very few experiences in which that happened were immediately taken care of by other ts users, who made the culprit understand that these kinds of acts weren't very well seen, regardless of gender.
Honestly if we're to try and make the "gaming community" a multi-gendered and tolerant community we should start by assimilating ourselves with them, not distinguishing a certain gender and shaming the other. I feel like you're shoving in the entire MCME community it this image of antisocial and misandrist guys but the fact is, it just isn't true. Yes, that one guy harassed the Sweettails, but is this a reason to create prejudice on the entirety of MCME? I'd say we've filtered out a fairly decent populus through mcme and we're in fact in the better parts of the gaming community. Let's not alienate them by insulting any male who might come our way.